Conversations with my grandson

When my 7-year-old grandson asked me, “Who would I be if you hadn’t ‘dopted Mummy?” I murmured “Mmm,” and said, “That’s a good question.” “Well Jana,” he insisted, “Who would I be? Would I still be me?  Would the lady who ‘dopted Mummy be my grandma?  I wouldn’t want that.  Would I have cousins in…